It’s something that has been on my mind lately. Why do women in online business set so small goals in life and in business? They think that if their business is blossoming they can’t have a successful family life. And if they put all their intentions on their body and health they can’t go out and be social with friends because they have to stick to the diet!
You can actually have it all. You can have it all now. You choose everything in your life and it’s all up to you and how much YOU want it.
Lately I have been going through my own goals and it hit me in the face that I have been saying yes to other peoples goals. I have been focusing on things that never will get me to my final destination as a world famous Style and Business coach (yes I dream big and so should you).
I have been working for free trying to build other peoples dreams and success.
How could I be so stupid? After all I know my numbers, I have a degree in Business Studies, Business Administration and Commerce. I earn good money in my business and I have my finance in order.
After talking to those people in my life that has been on me for different projects, I knew that I had to set my own intention for life.
I asked myself «Camilla what do you really want in your life?» «What is it that you want to do?».
I started writing my goals on a paper and then I 10x them. If I could have anything in this life how BIG would I dare to dream? When I wrote down my goals on paper I couldn’t care less on how this was possible. I just wrote and wrote, all things I wanted in my life.
After this exercise I realised that my ultimate goal and outcome was not aligned with my everyday action.
I want more international clients, earn more money every month in my business, make a healthy living, play more with my kids, be a romantic wife, take more time out for myself, eat healthier, read more inspiring books, meditate more, travel more, find time to call my mother and my aunt every week. Yes it’s a lot I ask of myself but to have it all you have to give something up.
I can now see clearly that to accomplish this I have to give up on playing small in life. I have been hiding in the online community for too long.
I’m on baby and you’re gonna see me now.
Why have I been hiding?
I have been hiding behind my norwegian business, working local with client, doing small stuff that doesn’t matter to me. My ultimate BIG goal in life is to live a life with freedom where I can make a huge impact in this world and helping other women get more confidence in their life and business and have success in every area they want to.
Yes I could blame myself for everything. It’s my fault after all. I haven’t been clear enough on my goals.
After my exercise with dreaming BIG, I 10X my goals so much that I got scared to tell them to the world. Why you think?
Well, here in Norway there is a law that is called «Janteloven» translated as «you should not think that you are any better that others». This is of course not a real law but something that has been written into papers and passed my generation by generation.
I hate this law. I could flush it down the toilet and hope it never get mention anymore.
But it will. It will always be there.
The only thing we could do here in Norway is to forget about it.
That’s why I want to work with international entreprenuers like you.
You have Big goals in life, you want it all and you think that you are actually better because you are unique.
I think that there is no competition in the online market place.
If you sell YOU, nobody can copy that.
You are your brand. It’s YOU that people will buy from. Not your fancy website, the right hair and makeup and how you put it all together.
My best mentors in the online world has been the people that has spoken openly the real truth about being an entrepreneur. They have been transparent about life, struggels and told the real version of how they got to make it to the top.
That’s inspiring and that’s what people can relate to. And buy into.
How you can 10X your life:
1. Write down the goals you have today in any area in your life
2. 10x them. Dream BIG and don’t let your small voice in your head tell you that you can’t have it. Of course you can!
3. What do you have to give up to reach those new BIG goals? For me I had to say no to projects that wasn’t aligned with my ultimate outcome. I had to focus on my international business insted of my local one.
4. Act as you have reach all your goals now! How would you act different? Speak different? Focus your time? You have to pretend that you are that person NOW. Don’t think that «someday» I become that person. Be that person now. That bold business women who has it all and live life on her own terms.
The world could come to an end soon and you will then still be dreaming about this. Don’t die with your BIG dreams inside of you. Show your community, family, children that they can be exactly the person they want to be. Show them the real you.
Don’t let others tell you how you must be to have a successful life. That’s all up to you.
10X your life and know that you can have it all!
P.S. If you want my help finding the guts to be yourself in a confident and stylish way in your business and make more money doing so, book your 30 min FREE clarity call her.