Category: Motivation

You are not here to be popular!



I have never been popular. I guess I have had friends that liked me for the person I am, but never been with the “cool gang”. I was actually boring as a kid. Very shy. Very misplaced. I feel that I did not fit in. I did long to be like all the others. Be pretty, funny, dare to speak up for myself. I did non of those things.

When I started in my corporate jobs I was still very shy. I could speak for myself, but not many people knew me. I loved to get friends to speak 1:1 with them. Loved to connect on a deeper level and talk about life and their dreams. But popular. Never.

I tried to fit it with the others, and when you are part of a big corporation your will be like the flock and think like the flock. It’s much easier to just go with the flow. Right?

So then when I tried the so called “online entrepreneur world” I was thinking that this will be something else. Here people will be real, honest, authentic. Boy, I was wrong.

Most of them try to fit in. Be popular. Be seen. Get people to like them, buy from them. They polish their true self.

It’s the same shit all over again. You could just stayed in a corporate job and be with the flock.

You are not here to be popular. Get over that silly high school shit.

You are here to stand out.

You are here to speak the truth.

You are here to make an impact and follow your own rules.

Nothing special will ever happen if you fit in again. Be like the others.

It’s doesn’t matter what others think or say about you.

What you feel inside, what you know to be true. Is true.

It’s your pathway.

Don’t try to fit in.

Don’t try to be popular.

The numbers on your Facebook page dosen’t count.

How many Instagram followers you have means a shit.

YOU count.

YOU matters.

When will you just be you? 100%?

I’m waiting for it. Show me. Show us.

Popular? Fuck it. It’s enough to be YOU.


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New issue of Spotlight Magazine is out!


New issue of Spotlight Magazine is out!!!

Super excited to give you another issue full of inspiration to follow your dreams and do what you always have felt in your heart.

In this issue you can read about the amazing Norwegian fashion design Siv Elise Selandd. She is the woman behind the Norwegian brand iis Woodling. Learn how she made it in the fashion industry.

Another superwoman is Gill Barham Barham who is now nominated for Stardust Awards in London in November.

Also come an join me behind the scenes on a VIP day in Paris with a lovely client.

I hope that you read this magazine and think that it’s possible for you too to make it. Because if these women can do it, so can you!

I believe in you!


Read the English version here:…/…/spotlight_issue_no_4_2_powerpoint

Read the Norwegian version here:…/…/spotlight_issue_no_4_no

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How to make selling easy!



Selling can be easy. You know and I know that we sell all day long. If you are working right now in a corporate 9-5 job – you sell.

If you have your own business and have clients and products – you sell.

Even when you try to get your kids on board to do things they way you want to – you sell.

So how to make selling easy? Ho to get what you want?

First you need to understand that rule number one is to DECIDE that you are good at selling.

Then you need to understand that selling is a numbers game. It is about how many people you get in front of, if the right people are seeing you and then it’s about how you bring it to the table.

Be so sold on your own services that you could buy them yourself. Think about one thing that you love to recommend to other people. They buy it? Right? Because you are sold on it.

Same goes with your service. Why are you not proud of how you can help? Why are you not in front of more people to show them what you got?

I guess you are afraid. And we all have that fear.

The best way to beat that fear is to do it anyway. Just go for it. The more you try, test, fail the more you will learn.

And if you did not get that sale today, then ask yourself “what did go wrong, how can I be better the next time?”.

Then you adjust and keep going. One foot in front of the other towards your goal.

Trust that you have something amazing to sell, then the others will see that.

Selling is about energy, what you bring to the table, solving others problem, give them results.

It’s not sleazy at all.

Go out there today and sell with your heart, soul and be proud of yourself.


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