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Why do you need to follow the online rules?

Why do you need to follow the online rules?

Why do you need to follow the online rules?

I have had it. I’m so sick and tired of all these online rules that are made up by the online police. There are certain rules to follow if you want to make it, they say. I will not under any circumstances follow them. Neither should you. If you just want a blueprint for success and how you can make money, then just stay in a safe 9-5 job and be good at what you do. Read why do you need to follow the online rules?

You did not get out of the system to be part on the online rules system. Did you? I don’t think so.

So by rules I mean things that the online people tell you about what you NEED to be successful.

  1. Be professional or else people will not take you seriously. Ok I’m bored, tired and I want to puke. I could just be back in the office following the government rule. I will break the rule and I will instead of being professional, be unprofessional, be me, be personal and authentic and speak my truth. The right customer will find me and they will like me for who I am and it will be amazing to work with them because they are just like me.
  2. Things has to be perfect before you start. Omg nothing has ever been perfect in my biz and it never will be. I launch before I’m ready, I post selfies in my blog post (look at this one haha) and I have spelling mistakes, pronounce words wrong and I look like crap most of the time in my livestreams (thats why I use filters). I hate the perfect polished version you are trying to be, when you could just be you and be fine with it. If people don’t like it, they find someone else. Not your soul mate client either way.
  3. You need a website, funnel, many followers to make money. No, you don’t. Everything starts with one. One client. One follower. One failure then another. You just keep going and you act like you have millions of followers. You just KNOW that this will work and you keep going until you die. Because you are all in, you are a bada$$ and you are here to make an impact, make money on your terms and you do it your way. It doesn’t matter how polished you look, if your website looks nice. If you don’t do this because it makes you HAPPY, stop. Happy is the outcome, not the money!!
  4. You must have a serious plan or else it will not work. OMG don’t get me started. This is where the so called government that try to help entrepreneurs FAIL. An entrepreneur will never ever stick to a fucking plan because it’s boring, will kill their dreams and things will either way change all the time. It does so in the market place with money system, investments, bank system so why do you think a solid plan will be the solution. My plan has change so so many times, doesn’t mean that I need a plan. I actually love to plan, but I plan many times and I do so from a place of where I want to go next. You can’t plan out your life or anyone else life. It’s just not possible. Life happens. shit happen. Get used to it and keep going.
  5. It’s hard work and you have to do tons of it. No you don’t. It’s hard if you think so. It’s not if you love it. So if you are passionate about your work it will not feel like work. Yes, sometime you have to just do things that you don’t like to get to the final outcome. If you are focusing on your passion, your art, it will be fun to get up in the morning. If you do your sales process like you just show up and share your message, then it will not feel like selling. You need to take action. Daily. But why wouldn’t you? If you love this business you have created, of course you will do the work. You are born to do this work.

So once and for all stop following the online rules. They are outdated, boring and not for you.

You are the one that will be authentic, yourself, bold, brave, speak your truth, live your laptop lifestyle, travel the world, get that kick-ass style. Work from Paris, Milan, London. You are the one that will do shopping in the middle of the day. Walk into Gucci and buy that bag because you love fashion, not because you want to impress people online. You are here to make an impact, tell people that it’s ok to be them. It’s ok to be who they are.

So if this is you. Where are you hiding? Isn’t it time for your to show the fuck up online and be who you are born to be?

I think be both know the answer to that.

Camilla

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Kill Your Plan B to Get to Fast Success!

Kill Your Plan B to Get to Fast Success!

Kill Your Plan B to Get to Fast Success!

One day you have to just kill your plan B. You have to go all in with that business. Don’t you think that you plan B will hold you back if you always have that in mind? “You can always go back to a crappy job” “You can try it out and see how this business thing will go”. Right? Kill Your Plan B to Get to Fast Success!

You are killing your plan A because you are more caught up in your Plan B. “If I not get to my final destination I can always go back”. Right? It is a big mistake to not go all in.

Yes, it takes time and effort to build a business and to be an entrepreneur.

That’s why not everyone are doing it. It will take money effort, pain, investment, you want to quit, you will feel like a failure. Whatever it takes, you have to go for your plan A and give it your all.

You are meant to do this soul work because you have to, you can NOT stop doing it. You have to have that passion and fire inside to KNOW that this is it. I’m going to make because I have it inside me. I can see this inside me and I can feel it come alive.

You have to ignore it all. Ignore the pain, ignore when things doesn’t work out, ignore the negativity and you will keep going until you are dead. Will you not? Are you not in it because you love it?

If you don’t love this business you have created then get the hell out of it. You don’t deserve success then. If you don’t love your job, then quit and start that business you dream about. Stop blaming it on the society when you always have a choice. Whatever you are choosing today, choose it because you love it. You’re never trapped, only in your mind will you be trapped.

The laptop lifestyle your dream about, the travels, money, fame, friends that you see in your future can come faster if you kill your plan B. There’s no plan B, only plan A. So what do you choose lovely?!

Camilla

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Are you scared to be a leader?

Are you scared to be a leader?

Are you scared to be a leader?

Do you know how powerful you are? Did you know that you can share what’s on your mind DAILY and get paid for it? Are you going all in with your message and gifts and show up like that bada$$ LEADER be both know deep down that you are? Or could it be that what’s holding you back right now is that you are scared to be a leader?

Not many people take the leading role in a company. As an entrepreneur you have to be a leader, you have to stand for things and you have to be the one that make the decisions that are both hard and easy.

Are you scared to be seen? Are you afraid to not be liked? Are your biggest fear that people will not like you? The most dangerous thing a human being can do is take the leading role. You can be hated, love, killed, people will throw rotten eggs at you, stalk you, follow you and then hate on you.

It’s a dangerous pathway to go on especially if you do this on your own and build a brand around who you are.

There will always be people that will not like you or love you. It’s ok.

Be ok with being a looser, a failure, a bada$$ that can stand up for what she believe in. Those who can’t stand up for something, will stand up for nothing when it comes to sharing their message.

Could it be that you are not where you want to be right now because you are scared of this? What will happen when you make tons of money and people will be jealous? What will your family say when you can pay everything and they feel that you will be spoiled? What will really happen if you say something to shake the world up and really stand for something?

Even if you feel powerful you also feel vulnerable. You long for success, but then again you hope that it will happen in silent. That someday someone will come and knock on your door and tell you that you have won the golden ticket to success.

To be a leader you have to stand alone. You have to stand up on the mountain top and look down on the others. It’s hard work and it can be scary.

The only way you can ever become that kick-ass woman you know you are deep inside, is to go all in with being who you are.

Speak your truth.

Stand against something.

Be bold.

Be brave.

Just don’t give a fuck about what others might think.

If they love you or hate you, it dosen’t matter. What matter is that you did YOU. All of you. You were that brave LEADER in your own biz. You did it because you knew that this was who you were.

So can you just DECIDE that you will be bolder, braver and STAND up for what you believe in? Even if they will hate you or love you or ignore you?

Go all in with being that LEADER now and look out for your revolution to come.

Camilla

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Where is the fun factor?!

Where is the fun factor?!

Where is the fun factor?!

Where is the fun factor in your biz? Are you even having fun while you do your work? Are you only pushing and controlling and trying to make it work?  Maybe you’re being told that joy only comes when you have worked your ass off and made it. What if it’s the other way around?

When you are having fun, more fun will come. When you are doing this business because you love it, then success will come. Success will come when you feel successful. Money will come when you are having fun.

You have to be in this for the long haul.

See yourself as free. Be free now. You have everything you need right now to put offerings out there, make big time money, make 5K days your new normal. It’s on you if you can have more fun.

Where is the fun in struggling and making no money? Where is the fun in pushing and trying to control the outcome?

Be honest now, are you living your freedom laptop lifestyle right now or are you chained to your to-do list, tasks, never-ending hustle?

I guess you hustle.

More fun must be brought into your life, fast, right now in this moment and it must be your number 1 priority.

Or else you could just as well stayed in that boring 9-5 job. Right?

You are here on purpose, you are here to make an impact, you have a message that the masses need to hear. You know this. I know this. You hold back and you don’t charge what you are worthy. ($$$$)

Of course you’re not having fun then.

Fun comes when you focus on having it for the sake of this. That is what having your own business is all about. Create, write, speak, sell, make money, have a laugh, more joy, be you, have freedom.

It’s totally possible for you to live a freedom laptop lifestyle where you travel the world, work from nice location and make money while you drink a glass of Prosecco. I’m doing it. I love it. But I also need to incorporate more killer joy into my business.

In one of Gabby Bernstein’s talks she give us 5 reason we block our success:

  • We push to make things happen
  • We are trying to hard
  • We’re controlling
  • We say “when I have….” then things will be…..
  • We focus on what we can get, rather then what we can give (share our message for the sake of it)

So are you doing this? Stop it.

Start to have more laughter everyday.

Let fun be your priority today, tomorrow and all year long. Be like a child and seek fun.

Camilla

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Just balance it like a man!

Just balance it like a man!

Just balance it like a man!

One question I get asked all the time on interviews and where I get featured on is how I balance things when I’m a mother?! Actually it’s a pretty stupid because do men get asked this? Men in high performance jobs? Men that are entrepreneurs? I don’t think so. Automatically they think that men can balance thing so why the fuck can’t women do it like men? Just learn to balance like a man?!

When you want to balance things like a man you don’t think about that there need to be a balance. And do it actually need to be a balance? Don’t men take care of their kids and give them food, cuddle them and still get to work and get shit done? Hell yes they do.

It’s actually women that think in their mind that it’s impossible to have success when I have kids.

Then I will be a bad mum. So if you are not having your house cleaned, dinner made for every single day, lunch boxes fixed etc. then you will be a bad bad mum. Ok be bad then. To make it you have to focus on what you want. You will learn how to work around having kids and you must not under any circumstance think that you kids is in the way and stopping you. Men will never think that way.

Just balance it like a man!

No balance at all.

Be you. Be ok with not being the nicest mum in the block. Be fine with you taking time to work on your biz while the kids watch iPad. Breath and let your husband make dinner tonight.

You are the one with the big dreams. You are the one that say you will make it. You are the one that will be the breadwinner in the family. Still you blame yourself for not being a supermum and a superwoman in your biz.

Fuck the fucking balance and focus on what you must do to get to where you want to go. Very often it is to be ok if other women judge you for not being a perfect mum. I can tell you this; i have never seen a perfect mum. If she exist she must be on drugs or an alien landed on this Earth.

You go out there into the world and do YOU. You go out there and balance it like a man. Fuck balance. Focus on what you want and expect that the kids will grow up to be strong independent kids that can follow their heart and soul because mummy did so. Get it?

Camilla

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